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This was a question i was asked last weekend in the course of a discussion i had with a group of ladies. They were attentive and ready to grab the “tips” i was about to dish out to them on what to look out for. They asked me to give them practical steps they could take to make the right decision.

There is only one answer to this question. That is, “BE THE RIGHT LADY”. How will this be done? Build the right relationships, do away with unproductive and destiny destroying relationships. A lady who has all her life or for a good part of it had right and healthy, value driven female friends will not end up with a womaniser EXCEPT something happens to her along the line.


It happened last week thursday. I just came out of a meeting in the office around 6pm when I received a phone call that my younger sister had just been involved in a car accident. Suddenly, my head felt light, then heavy, as several thoughts raced through my mind. I grabbed my handbag as I rushed for the staircase down to the car and got a colleague of mine to take me down to the accident scene. Traffic that evening was TERRIBLE; we spent about 30 minutes on the same spot. I kept receiving calls from a good samaritan who kept asking where i had gotten to. I felt like dumping the car and flying there. Shortly after, I got another call that she had been referred to Igbobi hospital from the private hospital she was initially taken to.


Position: Role Models

Job Requirements

  • Men/Women who place premium on their lives through their thoughts, words and actions
  • People who live everyday purposefully and carefully, as ones who will give account to their maker
  • People who see everyone whose path crosses theirs as a part of their divine assignment and an opportunity to make eternal deposits
  • People whose lives others see and thank God that they were born
  • People with personal working relationship with God

Improve Your Vocabulary

Here are new words for you to chew for the day. Enjoy!

1) Extemporaneous – Carried out or performed with little or no preparation; impromptu.
Synonyms: extemporary, extempore, impromptu, off-the-cuff, offhand, offhanded, unrehearsed, ad-lib
Usage: an extemporaneous piano recital;

2) Captious – Marked by a disposition to find and point out trivial faults.
Synonyms: faultfinding, critical
Usage: She found the new professor to be captious, marking all the grammatical errors in her essays while ignoring the points she had tried to make.

3) Beneficent – Characterized by or performing acts of kindness or charity.
Synonyms: benevolent, gracious
Usage: Distance does the same beneficent work far more speedily, and (when assisted by Change) far more effectually as well.

4) Didactic – Intended to instruct.
Synonyms: didactical
Usage: “The principal difficulty in your case,” remarked Holmes, in his didactic fashion, “lay in the fact of there being too much evidence.”

5) Recalcitrant – Marked by stubborn resistance to and defiance of authority or guidance.
Synonyms: refractory
Usage: Neither could he mobilize his army to go forth to war, nor could he punish his recalcitrant subjects.

6) bissextile
a leap year

bissext also bissextus noun [C]
February 29th, the extra day in a leap year

7) Twoc – to steal something, especially a car

8) Locavore – a person who only eats food which is grown or produced

9)  Bioneer – an individual or group who creates new solutions for dealing with environmental issues, especially when these interact with other social and economic factors

10) Meshing –  the practice of joining together two names to make a new name for a married couple