My last post encouraged men to share their work details with their wives. In the process of simplifying their technical work, couples bond better.
Yes, I know that it is one thing for men to try and explain to their wives or carry them along as far as their work is concerned, it’s another thing for the wives to show interest in the work. It takes two willing people to make a marriage work.
Madam, pls don’t fall my hand. I know you work so hard juggling many things. Take out some of the time you spend on DSTV, Netflix or social media to listen to hubby talk about his work. Your relationship will be better for it. You’re much more than a giver or recipient of sweet words, gifts or a good time in bed. You’ve got so much value to give for your husband to struggle less in his work or business. There’s always an angle you can offer to make his life more bearable and productive. Vice versa is definitely true as well.
If he doesn’t share about his work, ask. It will look awkward at first, but it will make sense with time. There are many mechanical, unromantic things couples must do regularly that will pay off in time as it will make the relationship more solid.
Let’s keep talking!
